Standing Before the Tomb

 
Fr. Manu Mathew
21 Mar 2026
5th Sunday of Lent, Year A

John 11: 1-45

There is something quietly unsettling about the story of Lazarus.

Before the stone is moved, before the voice calls the dead to life, there is a pause. And in that pause, Jesus weeps. He knows what he is about to do. He knows that death will not have the final word. Yet he does not move quickly past the sorrow. He remains within it.

It is as though resurrection does not begin with power, but with presence. Not with victory, but with a willingness to share the weight of human loss. God does not remain at a distance, waiting to resolve what is broken. He comes close enough to feel it.

Perhaps this is the way of Jesus. Not to escape pain, but to enter it. Not to avoid the tomb, but to stand before it, with tears.

And something begins to unfold even before Lazarus comes out. Those who are watching begin to see differently. Jesus is no longer only the one who can act, but the one who understands. The one who does not stand outside human suffering, but within it.

That moment lingers.

In the way we move through life, in the way we stand with others in their pain, in the way we respond to what is broken, there may be something to notice. There are times when we feel the urge to act quickly, to explain, to offer solutions, to move things forward. Yet the Gospel seems to hold another possibility. To remain. To stay. To allow the moment to be what it is.

It is not always easy to stand before another person’s sorrow without trying to change it. Yet there may be something that quietly takes place when we do. Something that cannot be forced or produced.

Perhaps this is where life begins to rise again. Not always in visible or dramatic ways, but in small, unseen moments where love chooses to remain present.